A Mediator Who Also Runs the Alternative

Mary Molloy Solicitors, established 1981. Neutral in the room — and candid about when the room is the wrong answer.

45+

Years, Established 1981

Diploma

in Mediation, Law Society

On Site

& Fully Online

Neutral

Appointed by Both Sides

The Credential, and Why the Discipline Is Distinct

Richard O’Shea is a solicitor at Mary Molloy Solicitors and holds the Law Society of Ireland Diploma in Mediation — the Society’s own qualification, assessed rather than attended, covering mediation practice, process design, and the ethics and duties of a neutral. That matters here more than it might elsewhere, because workplace mediation is not advocacy performed gently and it is not HR performed by an outsider. The habits that serve a lawyer well in a dispute — advancing a position, probing the other side, protecting an advantage — are precisely the habits a mediator sets down at the door. And the habits that serve a manager well — deciding, directing, resolving — are equally out of place: a mediator who starts steering people toward the outcome they think is sensible has stopped mediating. The training exists to make that transition deliberate. What the wider practice adds is context: a firm established in 1981 with a live employment caseload, so the disputes this site addresses are familiar territory rather than case studies.

Neutral in the Room — and the Part Other Sites Leave Out

As mediator, this practice acts for nobody: appointed by both sides, advising neither, making no findings, reporting nothing on the merits to an employer, and deciding nothing — and that holds regardless of who pays the fee, which in workplace matters is usually the employer. Every participant is encouraged to take their own advice, from a solicitor or a union, and to take it before signing anything. The rule that governs everything is absolute: never mediator and adviser in the same matter, which is why the conflicts check runs at first contact, before any substantive conversation, and why we ask for the names of everyone involved and the employer entity first. Then the part most mediation websites omit. Some situations must not be mediated. Allegations of serious misconduct need a process that makes findings. Matters engaging health and safety duties need to be dealt with as such. Protected disclosures must not be quietly absorbed into a conversation about working relationships — that is a distinct statutory regime, and it routes to whistleblowersolicitor.ie. And where the employment relationship is genuinely ending, the terms, waivers and independent advice belong with settlementagreementsolicitor.ie, not a mediation room. The full account is on the when mediation is not appropriate page — and it is a page this practice regards as the most useful on the site.

A Situation That Might Be Fixable?

Ten lines describing it, the names of everyone involved and the employer entity for the conflicts check. You get the honest sorting answer first - including 'this one needs investigating, not mediating' where that is the truth.

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Richard O’Shea — Solicitor & Mediator

Solicitor at Mary Molloy Solicitors (established 1981) and holder of the Law Society of Ireland Diploma in Mediation. The firm also runs a substantial employment practice, which is why the honest sorting question — whether a situation needs a mediation or an investigation — gets answered at the first call rather than halfway through. Workplace mediations are conducted on site, at neutral venues, at The Ormond Building on Ormond Quay, at the Kilkenny office — or fully online. The mediator is appointed by both sides and acts for neither. 01 5827148 · richardoshea@marymolloysolicitors.com · LinkedIn

About the Practice - FAQs

Three practical reasons. First, the sorting question gets answered properly: knowing whether a situation requires an investigation, engages a statutory duty, involves a protected disclosure or can genuinely be mediated is a legal judgement, and getting it wrong is expensive for an employer and unfair to a complainant. Second, the agreement gets drafted so it holds: a workplace agreement has to be concrete enough to be followed, careful enough not to cut across contracts, policies or statutory entitlements, and clear about what is recorded and what is not. Third, reality-testing lands differently when the mediator genuinely knows what a WRC hearing involves, what an investigation feels like from the inside, and how long each takes - because parties recalibrate when the account is credible rather than theoretical.

General information, not legal advice. This website contains general information about workplace mediation and Irish law. It is not legal advice and does not create a solicitor—client relationship. Every workplace situation turns on its own facts, and advice on yours requires a consultation.

The mediator is not your legal adviser. Where Mary Molloy Solicitors is appointed as mediator, the mediator is neutral: the mediator acts for no party, advises no party, makes no findings and decides nothing. This is so regardless of which party is paying the fee. All participants are encouraged to take independent legal advice, and in particular to take advice before signing any agreement reached in mediation. Employees may wish to seek advice from their own solicitor or trade union. The firm does not act as mediator in any matter in which it acts, or has acted, for a party — conflicts are checked before any appointment is accepted.

Mediation is not a substitute for a required process. Some matters must be investigated rather than mediated, including allegations of serious misconduct, matters engaging health and safety duties, and protected disclosures. Nothing on this site suggests that mediation should displace an employer’s statutory obligations, a grievance or disciplinary procedure where one is required, or a complainant’s entitlement to have a complaint formally investigated or to bring proceedings.

Fees. Fees for mediation are agreed in writing before the mediation begins, and fees for legal services are agreed in writing with the client at the outset. In contentious business, a solicitor may not calculate fees or other charges as a percentage or proportion of any award or settlement.

Tax. Nothing on this website is tax advice. Where any payment or arrangement has tax consequences, those questions belong with your accountant or tax adviser and with Revenue’s own guidance, and are best addressed before anything is signed.